Love is not selfish,love is kind,love is not self-seeking,love is patient,love does not envy,love does not boast,love endures,love forgives,love does not recall wrongdoing. How to get your husband to love you? First,learn how to love HIM. Love him through the eyes of God. When your husband gets on your nerves or does you wrong,instead of getting mad at him and talk back,takea deep breath and learn how to forgive.God 1st loved us ,so we now in return love him. If you have never given your life to Jesus Christ,now would be a good time! Both your husband and you will be blessed. The world fails to recognise it,but true success in life is to put God 1st in everything you do,yes,even your marriage!

Love God first,put Him 1st and ask Him how to love your husband and He will surely bless you with a brand new husband!! (your husband but with a brand new attitude!!)

God bless.

yes He does! If we diligently seek Him and do His will!! Be blessed my friend!

yes! and you need to re-evaluate your life. what is more important to you? comfort or true love? Be fair and sincere to yourself and the two ladies. They both deserve to be loved,cherished,respected and appreciated,and so do you! Who understands you the most? who can you 100% be yourself with without barriers? If you have kids with the "comfortable" lady,sort it out,kids are not dumb and they'd rather have 2 happy separated parents than 2 miserable parents living under the same roof. Staying JUST for the sake of the kids isn't a good enough answer. Follow your instinct.

All the best.....