This is a very tough question and having the right answer would have to count on you. First, How much do you love him? Can you feel that you can trust him? Has he changed anything about himself as far as going out, coming home from work, Helping out around the house, conceling his phone calls,taking money out of the bank, just to mention a few but what it all comes down to is you. You are the one who has to make that decidion.What is going to be best for your children thats if you have any. Do you feel that you can be intimant with him? Alot has to happen. I hope that I gave you some good thoughts and answers to your questions.God Bless you and stay strong:)