if you have ever felt the innocence and fragility of a child you couldnt ask such a question children often act upon what they see or hear especially at a young age we talking as a parent are a very big influence on our children and we help them take a direction in life good or bad we still have a big part to play but i agree that sometime some people do all that's in their power  to help their child take the right road in life but the child has the biggfewst part to play in this he decides who to listen to his parents or maybe his or hers friends it probably feels  cooler if  u give more importance to your friends words it might be the coolest  but not the wisest decision !