I take care of buisness and hold it down. I am the first to get up and the last to sit down. I respect a good man that takes care of his buisness and makes me feel like the only women in the room. His food will be cooked, his home will be clean and his women at his side with no questions asked ...if he is a good man. but then again I don't have time for anything else. Anyway, I can be all those things and it seems it so not appreciated.

this is so difficult, so I really like this guy, freakin head over hills for him. We lost touch for about a year then I am walking out of a store and there he is waiting on me.....appr me like no time has come by. then he starts texting me telling me he wants to hang our, so Im like is he doing this cause he wants me or what. We have known each other for a long time, and he broke my heart cause the hole time I thought we were both in the relationship...well i was the only one in the relationship. Make a long story short I left and thought i was over him, but I am not. I need closure becacuse i need to know one way or ther other how he feels about me and I don't know how to get him to do that.

This is simple, I have two questions that I would like to ask you..just you. 1. can you live with his infidelity, 2. Are you willing to change. If both the answeres are no - call the moving van, pop in tina turner and drive off listening to her song "whats love go to do with it," and keep it moving ma. Life is to short and regardless of what people say and think it comes down to love and happiness - at the end of the day you need to be able to look in the mirror with your head held high and just do what makes you happy at the end of the day and never look back. so basically you can control what you do but you cant control what others do so if your man can't be the man you need him to be then tell him to take a walk - because while your sitting there looking at him the right one is passing you by. And, FYI he's not addicted to sex look at the animal kingdom look at how the body works, he is doing what nature tells him. our job is to procreate to ensure the survival of our race. So part of being humane is becoming more ethical and moral - a man of honor and integrity with morals is a man your man does what dogs do so if he hasnt given you an std yet I would be thankful and suggest you get out while your free of stds, hurt, and disgrace. I am sorry for you, because no women should be put through this. Good Luck!!!!