sorry my mistake, I'm new in this site, thanks :)

1980, Could you be loved. Bob Marley

your story reminds me of a boyfriend I use to have that did the same thing. Listen you might not like my answer girlfriend, but drop this guy like a sack of potatoes because first of all he is being disrespectful and second of all he doesn't care about your feelings. He is going to continue to do this and guys that do this in front of you also does it behind your back. So if I were you I would run the other direction no matter if he is the best lover in town.