who would of thought a y keep going question would have generated all this?  If i had tiime i would share my Jerry Springer like story with u guys.  not the ones about midgets eating spaghetti off of fat girls,  just the bad romance versions.  twice divorced. I consider that to be a part of my problem.  They have stolen my self worth and confidence.  I am nothing but a shadow of what I used to be.  That's y my screen name is usually  hateshadowinnight

After two failed marriages, probably no way jose