my husband tries to but he feel sorry for me, my whole body hurts, the doctor says nothing is wrong butttt I know how I am feeling

All of us could sit here and tell you what to do. But the truth of the matter is that we can't hide our feelings, we have to wait until it dies. The best way to get over a mate is to check and see how much pain it is causing us. If we do realy know what is love and we do love our self, we would get out fast and easy, with out being angry with them. We know the type of person we are dealing with, why do we expect them to change.I have being married for 18yrs and I never knew that he was a Big Cheater even had a kid out side that I never knew about , until the kid was twelve, what could I do, at that time I thought nothing but after, what if he brings home something that I don't want , what about that.