That sounds just plain selfish, cowardis and he should confront you with the truth but their are always two side to a story so i couldn't say how horrible that is but their is one thing for certain he was cheating and leaving his children cant be helped if it is a break up. He should still be their for his children and if he isn't i wouldn't call that a man but it is his loss. keep your chin up, be strong and hopefully things will workout and i hope those children are ok so concentrate on them forget about him if it means the attension taken away from them. good luck

LOOK AFTER NUMBER 1 MATE, I HAVE BEEN THERE TOO AND IT HERTS LIKE HELL BUT U KNOW WHAT YOU WILL BECOME A STRONGER AND MORE CONFIDENT PERSON FOR IT. DONT LET SOMEONE BREAK YOUR CONFIDENTS NO MATTER WHO IT IS THEIR ARE MORE FISH IN THE SEA MATE. AND I DONT MEAN TO BE BLUNT BUT MAN UP. HOPE ALL GOES WELL WITH THE WOMEN HUNTING. DONT CALL HER OR TXT WORD OF ADVICE TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT.PEACE!

I WOULD HAVE TO SAY IF ANYONE MANAGES TO HEAL THEIR LOWER BACK PAIN TO GO TO THE GYM AND START DOING LOWER EXERCISES TO STRENGHTEN AREA E.G DEADLIFTS, SPINAL EXTENSIONS THIS WILL REDUCE THE CHANCES OF LOWER BACK PAIN REOCCURING AGAIN.