Girl...he doesn't have to be an online scammer to be using you. He may have some genuine going on but you already know your answer. Your gut is telling you. Why aren't you listening to your gut? It is my not listening to my gut that has gotten me the most seriously used by men. If you are paying for everything, is that how you want to start or maintain a relationship? Why aren't you listening to your gut sister?? That's where I would be looking.