Love? How could you think this is love? He is not committing himself 100% to you at all. I bet you are a secret in his life as well. Unfortunately, he is staying with his wife because he wants to. He loves her and what they have. You are just filling in on the part of his relationship he "misses" with his wife because of his kids and busy work life. He goes on vacations with her and sleeps with her every night and has sex with her too - and sadly you are just an excitement for him right now, unfortunately hurting you while he is being selfish. Lust is always mistaken for Love. I'm sorry about you getting hurt by a married man. It sucks actually. I've been there - done that. Please stay on the path of single men - you WILL find happiness after your broken heart is healed. You will probably always run into him somehow....you live in the same state. be strong. I hope for the best for you hun.

yes. but it needs to be a mutual bond on both sides. someone close to your own age. especially if its the type of person you've been searching for - for a long time.