Dear picci,  My neice had a still born baby named Jonathan.  She researced and networked and got a lot of answers.  The whole extended family is involved with remembering and celebrating Jonathan.  His twin older brothers are his biggest fans.  They have a Jonathan garden with flowers, trees and shrubs that friends and family contributed and helped plant  Here is her email:  janellepete@yahoo.com  Her name is Janelle, and would love to talk to you. She can provide a lot of good support, herself, and hook you up with others.  Tell her Uncle Jay sent you.  Wishing you peace, Jay

I just googled John Barry High Road to China and listened to and viewed the video.  Nice piece!