Honesty, good personality, great sense of humor and being into making me happy, which in turn makes me want to make him happy. Depends upon the people involved. Looks not so important. Taking care of himself is vital also. The more I think about it a great sense of humor in a man who can make me laugh is pretty much #1
As the old saying goes: "Whatever turns you on!"
I imagine it depends upon "how hot" as to answer the where to massage part of your question. I hear some folks like candle wax dripped on their bodies...whatever turns you on I guess!
All democratic countries are fine in my book
Hate like jealousy can turn into a disease that nobody needs to live with
Any painting by Salvador Dali, a true genius with his paintings and his visions of the future
I live on the south side of Chicago. Believe me here you definitely need both!
Cats are very self sufficient creatures. They are aloof in a way that I respect. They don't HAVE to suck up to you like a dog will. They only seem to like certain people. They have a queenly (or kingly) air about them, almost regal I believe. I love cats and actually prefer them more than dogs.
You really only need to worry when and if she turns up pregnant.
Unless the dog is favoring his ears or scratching at them I would leave well enough alone or if you think it's a problem you should consult a veterinarian. It's not a good idea for you to try to clean them yourself as the wax is for protection.