He's told me he will file for visitations and take a paternity test and pay child support but I think when it comes down to it he'll run from this too. I don't think he's ready to be a parent and if he shows signs of maturity later I'll reconsider. But as of right now he still wants to go out and party (drink and do drugs). His biggest concern this week has been whether or not I'll let his girlfriend of one week be around our baby. He's had problems with drugs in the past and lot of different girls in and out of his life constantly. He's also verbally abusive to me and about my friends and family. I don't want to "take his baby away from him" like he keeps saying, I just want to make sure my baby is being taken care of and taught what's right and wrong.