Women in their late 20s look for older men because men that are in their late 20s aren't as settled and don't offer as much security. Usually women in their late 20s are looking for financial gain and material comfort to make them happy without the effort of having to support and lift up a young man. However if a young lady would find a young man they would like to support, encourange, an walk along a life's path of ups and downs, the relationship will have depth and substance and have more meaning. When you work hard at anything, it becomes more precious to you.