Your question is confusing, please rephrase it.
This is something that is both universal and crosses all ages and generations. It is unbearable but sadly very little can be done about it. I agree with Pythonlover's good advice. I wish you luck and do not worry you will find the right one who will love you back.
Incorporating it into what?
The stones at Stonehenge are now fenced off, it is no longer possible to touch the stones, which was the cause of most of the damage (rather than the A303). It is a protected area therefore conservation is the priority so hopefully it will be around for many years to come.
In the UK the festive season incorporates many Bank Holidays (public Holidays) so everyone has a chance to celebrate, whatever their religious persuasion.
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It is a fact that the service industry in the UK would collapse if it relied on the indigenous population for man/woman power.
After working in a refugee camp with 100,000 displaced men, women and children I learnt the true value of sharing and understood the reality of 'violating innocence'. Even when a person has little there is always something to give. I learnt no matter who/what/why/wherefore we are, when we cut ourself we all bleed the same way.
The exclusive and expensive kind I would wager!
Any!! (as long as it balances out the alcohol!)