I agree with digger and daren1.....money difficulties causes so much protracted stress in relationships one blames the other for cause or for not providing sufficiently.

Never, not ever, ever. You might end up liking him but given him the wrong impression!  

Do you mean because it takes over your life (living it)? What / who  are people like you?

After working in a refugee camp with 100,000 displaced men, women and children I learnt the true value of sharing and understood the reality of 'violating innocence'. Even when a person has little there is always something to give. I learnt no matter who/what/why/wherefore we are, when we cut ourself we all bleed the same way.

Why are white people white? Why are redheads readheaded? Why are blue eyed people blue eyed? Perhaps because we were made that way.

... what happens when you're busy making other plans!!

Push of a button?

After attempting to wipe out an entire race of innocent people and indiscriminately ending the lives of innocent men women and children using the most repulsive, inhuman and evil means possible I hope wherever he ended up reflects his merciless savagery and brutality. He also cowardly took his own life, this I believe is a sin in many religious denominations, I know it to be so in the Catholic faith. Add to this his incestuous relationship with his niece (who killed herself to be free of him) and the disease of syphilis I don't think he stood much chance of a happy ending.

To never eat anything bigger than my head!

Be cautious and accept the possibility that sleeping with your friend might fracture or end your friendship, is it worth it? On the other hand such action might mark the beginning of a beautiful, premanent romance, good luck!