spend plenty of time asking questions. you wont find alot of things out unless you ask questions.  i spent too much time alone without asking them and i regret it. especially after dad passed away

guess its all in how you sort them out in your own mind. its up to you

terrified theyre creepy with their beady little eyes and they just dont stop coming at you and i hate the feeling of spider webs- yuck!

the bible is a lesson plan for how to live your life and how to prepare for the cbstacles that come in your way and how to get through them with soul intact. its also good for having some referemces on how to mourn and get through the results of bad choices we make and learn how to see the lesson He is trying to teach us along the way to return to Him 

seeing the clues along the way that enable me to remember what God has already told me that my earthly body and troubles try to keep me from remembering amd being ok with just that. spiritual peace and contentment i guess in a nutshell.

i learned way too slow who not to hang around and made ALOT of mistakes that have effected me today. having to change when youre older is probabkly ALOT harder than when youre younger. sadly i will never know that from personal experience.:( but important thing is ive finally learned that lesson. now that ive stopped being so bull-headed and started realizing god is at work in your mistakes too.

go to her and tell her you dont appreciate her calling you names-curses at that and its innapropriate if this kind of behavior continues you will go to her manager and report it AGAIN because you should do it this first time because its abusive, mean and just plain wrong.

dont get married to someone you would want to divorce later!

LISTEN TO EACH OTHER AND GIVE NOT TAKE. ALWAYS LOOK TO IMPROVE YOUR PARTNERS SITUATION, NOT YOUR OWN AND YOUR WILL AUTOMATICALLY BE IMPROVED. BUT BE CAREFUL NOT TO GIVE TO THE POINT THAT IT TAKES AWAY FROM YOU. KEEP YOUR OWN IDENTITY, DONT GET LOST IN THE OTHER PERSONS. AND MOST IMPORTANTLY PRAY AND READ SPIRITUAL LITERATURE TOGETHER TO ENSURE YOU DONT GROW APART ON A SPIIRITUAL LEVEL AS THIS IS WHERE THE PROCESS OF GROWING APART STARTS. ONCE YOUR SPIRITUAL PROCESS STARTS TO LACK OTHER AREAS START TO LACK IN TURN; EMOTIONAL, PHYSICAL, ETC. ALWAYS RESPECT YOUR PARTNER LIKE YOU WANT TO BE RESPECTED. THIS MAY MEAN HAVING TO ACKNOWLEDGE SOME CRAZY IDEAS MEN HAVE ABOUT HOW THE WAY THINGS SHOULD BE RUN LOL! KEEP A POSITIVE ATTITUDE TOWARDS ALL IDEAS AND SITUATIONS YALL FIND YOURSELVES IN AND REMEMBER THERE IS GROWTH IN ALL CIRCUMSTANCES ESPECIALLY THE REALLY TOUGH ONES.

dont say its not you, its me whatever you do its a dead give away anymore! just be honest and like it is you are not trying to be mean but you need to set some healthy boundaries with her and she can either respect them or miss out on your company all together. otherwise youll get sick of her and in a heated moment will say something mean and hateful and later regret it.