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Sounds like he is a bit of a moron.It's like stepping on a piece of gum...it keeps sticking around bothering you.If you feel this low about yourself that you would even consider this fool, then you really need to get your self esteem up.Tell him you are interested in someone else, he doesn't have to know the someone else is your self esteem!

13 years ago. Rating: 3
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mom gave good advice take it....

13 years ago. Rating: 1
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I would say avoid future contact with this guy

13 years ago. Rating: 1
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One basic fact: We all want someone's attention, we all want to be loved. BUT, not all kinds of attention are healthy, and not all of them are signs of love. Unfortunately, many people learn something different during their childhood, being brought up by parents who often are not able to master their conflicts.

Madonna is right in her song "Secret": "Until I learned to love myself I was never ever loving anybody else." Recover (or discover) your respect and your love for yourself first. That is easier said than done, but it is possible. With time, you will notice that you are getting better and better at drawing limits and recognizing whose company is enriching for you (and that person) and whose is not.

Another tip: speak your mind openly, especially in front of people who do you harm. Don't try to be liked, don't try to sound nice. Just say what you truly feel is going on. If the guy feels something for you, he'll take that seriously. If not, he'll simply disappear in a puff and that was that.

Best wishes,
Papitou

13 years ago. Rating: 1
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