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    my friend is self distructing on K2 how do I help him. He wants to get off it but says he will then go to alcohol which isn't any better. What do i do?

    please I don't know how to help him he's so out of it

    +2  Views: 1017 Answers: 5 Posted: 9 years ago
    mycatsmom

    cutie, You can't help him untill he wants to be helped.

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    Counselling is the answer, but he needs to WANT the help for himself, if he doesn't the spiral is only downwards.

    I appreciate your concern for your friend, and am not buying the excuse that if he quits K2 he'll turn to alcohol.  


    Having been through addiction with very close family members (and always fearful of relapse), I can validate those who tell you that, until your friend is ready to make a commitment to being clean and sober, there isn't much you can do. 


    Nagging, cajoling, begging, joining in, distancing yourself....nothing is going to make a difference.  I agree with talking to a doctor and/or attending NarAnon or AlAnon, which are organizations for those who have a loved one who is an addict or alcoholic.  I found the meetings helpful, if only in that "misery loves company", but there are many resources available through either.  


    I hope he makes the choice sooner than later. The mothers of my grandchildren chose drugs over the kids, and both have lost their parental rights at this time, with both my sons enjoying the responsibility and privilege of full legal and physical custody. One of my sons is clean and sober; I'm not so sure about the other one...

    Do an intervention arranged by a pro. Gather a group of well loved friends and family members who will “ambush” your friend and state the obvious facts. The “victim” generally sees thing their way when confronted so and likely decide to get professional help……….

    mycatsmom

    Do you watch intervention on T V ?
    jhharlan

    Never heard of it on TV. I attended seminars on the subject.....

    I have not had pot in over 20 years. It was a good experience but not if you want to get anything done. So I quit. These days the pot may be different by hybrid variations. But I'm pretty sure it still wears off after a while. I have know many who thought they should go to a hospital after consuming pot...especially the first time. Acquired habits, sub-conscious resolutions and beliefs born in heritage bonds and hypnosis seem to completely loose emphasis. This fall-out is usually experienced as a form of euphoria and repeated experience eventually leads to recognizing the consumption of the drug is no longer desired.


    Some of my friends choose to continue all their life. Of these, most are moderately wealthy are married and have kids in college and business.  

    ROMOS

    Just a chill out then?
    Some bad examples out there.
    robertgrist

    Ramos, I know. The bad examples got into drugs other than pot and taking pot out of that circle may make the wild-card drugs too ridiculous to consider. The other crap-shoot drugs, someone cooked up in their kitchen...are far less desirable when the effects of the drug and its possession are crimes with harsh penalties.

    http://www.narconon.org/drug-abuse/signs-symptoms-spice.html
    ROMOS

    rg, Ramos is my Spanish cousin, he "used" a wee bit back in the day, came to his senses eventually!
    ;)
    Bob/PKB

    Do you have any advice or help to offer?
    mycatsmom

    Robert is referring to Meth .
    robertgrist

    K2....I didn't know what K2 is until I went to street drugs for K2.Like I said crap-shoot drugs. That is some seriously stupid crap to do to your one and only body for a kick. I bust meth labs as soon as I learn of them....right to the cops. Cooking up to fry the unwise brains is an activity that deserves a strong dose of GUILT.
    mycatsmom

    the affects of pot lasts about 4 hours, if it's strong and you eat enough of it, in a bar cookie.

    K-2 comes from Asia......and it is legal......sold in gas stations . It's also called bath salts. It is an extremely powerful and dangerous synthetic drug. There have been several murders of an addict's parents and children and everything else done by persons on K-2. It is way more dangerous and powerful that alcohol. The state of Michigan has been rushing to make it illegal. They passed a bill thru congress real fast to make it illegal. And the police have been going around to gas stations to make sure nobody is selling it.



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