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    how to deal and live with a cheating and lying husband

    i found out my so love husband has a female partner an he just keep denying it eventhough i got proof


     

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    +2  Views: 1109 Answers: 6 Posted: 10 years ago
    lindilou

    It is tough with kids involved...can you get some councelling...try your church or maybe Salvation Army has some resources but if the marriage is worth saving...and it sounds like it may be...then he has got to get honest with you...tell him...or forget about him and move on.
    Commented 10 years ago
    faithstrong

    thanks lindilou i think ur last set of advice sound great
    Commented 10 years ago
    lindilou

    Keep the faith honey...there's a reason for everything...sometimes we can't see it until later is all...peace and good luck faithstrong!
    Commented 10 years ago
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      There are a few things you could do....get a lawyer and divorce him....forget about him...


      Put up with the lies and live your own lie....or forget about him...


      Forget the lawyers and just leave him for a safer, more stable life elsewhere, in other words forget about him...

      10 years ago. Rating: 6
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        itsmee

        ...or you could forget about him. : (

        lindilou said that ... it bears repeating. faith strong, I wish you the best. You are in a difficult time in your life.
        commented 10 years ago

        It’s time for thinking of decisions. Do you love him truly? Do you absolutely need him? Can you get by w/o him? Would you be lost w/o him? You know he will not change, don’t you?

        10 years ago. Rating: 5
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          faithstrong

          i really dont no what will be the outcome right i am in just a shock i trusted him for 15 years
          commented 10 years ago
          jhharlan

          Shock is expected. So are your feelings. Read a copy of HOW TO SURVIVE THE LOSS OF A LOVE to start healing, even if you haven’t lost.
          commented 10 years ago

          Decide if you can make your own way thru life without your cheating partner!  If you are trully thinking about this please respond to all your answers!  Not just to the one suggesting payback! Good Luck to you and your children!

          10 years ago. Rating: 5
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            Show him the door!..Change the locks...and find a good divorce lawyer!..It worked for me!


            Good Luck!

            10 years ago. Rating: 5
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              itsmee

              That would be my choice.
              commented 10 years ago

              faithstrong, I didn't see the part about your three children until late. Now I'm confused. I never really had advice, but I do now. You need a counselor - a good one.  Let us know. OK? 

              10 years ago. Rating: 3
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                u need to do him wit he do u

                10 years ago. Rating: 0
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                  faithstrong

                  the problem is that we have 3 lovely kids togrther
                  commented 10 years ago


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