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    In a relationship, what is more important, love or money or sex?

    +8  Views: 1907 Answers: 14 Posted: 11 years ago

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    Love, sex, money.


    Sex is very, very, very important but without love


    is just the physical, which while relaxing, comes


    nowhere near sex with love.  Money is way down


    on the list.

    Logical answer.....the one(s) currently lacking!     :)

    Love, sex and money in that order.

    I think it depends on your age.  For me, this is my breakdown:


    Love: 70%


    Sex: 25%


    Money: 5%

    Ducky

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    Can you prove those stats?! :)
    Chiangmai

    This my personal allocation. I am sure a 22-year old has a different combo. I would die for my wife out of my love for her today. I wouldn't when we first got married.
    Ducky

    Moderator
    I was only joking with my comment to you about "your stats" but glad that things are better than at the beginning. Often, it is the opposite and I agree that age does seem to change things.
    Chiangmai

    However, I could change my "stats" tomorrow. :)

    Let's see how my wife behaves.
    Ducky

    Moderator
    And that will depend on how YOU behave! :)
    Chiangmai

    It's probably very true.
    mycatsmom

    love don't pay the rent, or keep the wolf away from the door .

    Love is more important than money and sex. 

    I do think love is most important of the three, but compatibility would outrank all of those. I'm sure there are people who have "loved" someone but were just not compatible. 
    Sex is definitely more rewarding with someone with whom you share good feelings, at least as far as I am concerned.  Sex, in my definition, involves at least two people. 
    Money is important.  Without it, life can be extremely difficult.  I fear I would forgo sex for money if it meant being penniless and homeless otherwise.   

    Hmm That`s a hard one to answer Well dont need money have enough "love" never out of it . SEX Wife cant get it been looking for years to find it .She cried it must have "shrunk with your "brain !! "Oh I Said how about "VIAGRA " That`s only to make it last longer she moaned  Know what you need a transplant ."Oh I cried a "Brain ? "OUCH Never saw the "PAN coming !!

    lindilou

    Poor dowsa! Your real name must be Harley Davidson if you're a PANHEAD!!! LOL! :D
    dowsa

    LINDA. YOUR RIGHT ! BUT ARE YOU REALLY LAUGHING "AT ME" ( WEEP )
    lindilou

    Not AT you dowsa...trying to CHEER you up^y'know? Happy happy joy joy? Not laughing AT you...but WITH you...poor panhead...I mean..dowsa!! 8D
    dowsa

    "Linda . If you were "IRISH ,I would say your taking the "MICK !( making fun ) its bad enough Wife Colleen doing that !
    lindilou

    All apologies dowsa..Sadly I know what the wrong end of the pan feels like....weepsyweepers!
    Bonkers me is...simply bonkers from gettin' bonked!! {No Irish...Scot, Russian, Cree, German, Polish, Spanish...no Irish.} 8D
    dowsa

    Linda, you kill me HaHAhaha your good !
    millie111

    lol!;-)

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     Without money the other two are out the window. Has anyone seen the rise in domestic violence this year? Really scary. Why? Households can't pay their bills.

    Ducky

    Moderator
    Millionaires beat each other up.
    millie111

    Domestic violence is sadly classless!!...It occurs too much with people with or without money...though often the more monied people cover it up better....WHICH IS WRONG!!...Anyone who deals out domestic violence should be dealt with by the police etc!!!
    ed shank

    Millie, I agree. The numbers have gone up never the less. Why the dramatic increase if not due to the economy?
    Ducky

    Moderator
    I know you're addressing millie but I believe there is more reporting than there once was. At one time, not so many years ago, the attitude was "It's none of my business what goes on in their house". That has changed somewhat and, at least once in a while now, someone will call the police.

    Money is. With enough of it, you can always buy or rent the other two. If you don't believe ME, here's what Paul McCartney had to say about it.


    "When pressed by American journalists in 1966 to reveal the song's "true" meaning, McCartney stated that "I think you can put any interpretation you want on anything, but when someone suggests that 'Can't Buy Me Love' is about a prostitute, I draw the line." He went on to say: "The idea behind it was that all these material possessions are all very well, but they won't buy me what I really want."[4] However he was to later comment: "It should have been 'Can Buy Me Love' " when reflecting on the perks that money and fame had brought him.[5]"  - Wikipedia

    clu

    I'm going to agree about money. You can buy sex but not love! Love is very elusive! I think of the times I thought I was in love only to discover it was my imagination! Sex is very important! Not so much now but earlier in my life. VERY!
    Ducky

    Moderator
    So based on your theory digger, if you tell us that you're a multi-millionaire, we'll all love you and then you'll only have the third one to work out.
    digger

    Ducky, That's right. The theory presumes that you don't do the "other two" with the same person.
    Ducky

    Moderator
    Well okay then. And what about that "millionaire part" that I mentioned?
    digger

    Sex and love are fair game but money is a personal thing ;-)
    Ducky

    Moderator
    Right...these days called a pre-nup. :)

    Yes...........

    women would say money, and men would say sex.

    mycatsmom

    when bills come knockin' , the bed stops rockin'

    Love...and being in tune with each other!!!be sensible with money...ie don`t live outside your means...money or lack of it often causes conflict!!:-/

    in a marriage it should be LOVE first the rest should follow



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