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    Would you marry a black man?

    +5  Views: 1060 Answers: 19 Posted: 12 years ago

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    If my husband came in a different colour other than pasty white, why of course, Yes. 


    I don't understand why the colour of a person's skin makes any difference.  This question exhausts me...it's not as if we get to stand in a body parts store in order to choose colours of this or that before we are born.  "Eyeball department! Next!"


    'Oh what colour skin did you choose Betty?'


    Seriously.

    If he was everything i desired in a man.......Yes.

    yes. i married a black man.

    dowsa

    good on you girl be happy

    I divorced in 1978 and have no plans for remarriage. I am content on my own and just can't see me in another relationship..............

    FISH-O

    I graduated in 1978... wow. How long were you married and what age did you get married at?
    jhharlan

    I was 17 when I married and was married for 3 yrs.

    NO!, but i would consider a 'Black Women'. (not 'alf ). lol.

    I had a crush on a black "girl" in the third grade. I still remember how cute she was. No I wouldn't marry a black "man".

    No I wouldn't .  My wife probably would though.

    Why all the questions about black men? I do expect and answer tabber. 

    tabber

    Hi Colleen. Thank you for your comment! Colleen in our culture black/white relationships has been an issue for 500 years. The black/white thing has always and still is an issue. White men were going with all the black girl slaves and had many mixed kids. White women were pissed. & some are still pissed & it does affect black women in the job market, because white women are often the supervisors over black women. However, many white women were the heroes to black people and taught them how to read and write, putting their family and their lives at risk. So in todays society, it is still a subconscious issue. Enlighitened people, see further, "love all people," white women, black men, black women & white men, & all 'others'. Hopefully me & you are in that category.
    Colleen

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    I'm sorry but maybe where you live it's an issue, certainly not where I live. Not as far as I can see. We have no race wars or race issues in my area. I'm sorry that it still goes on in other areas.


    You need to add to your questions with information such as this. Putting your 3 questions together has made you appear racist with out the benefit of you explaining your reasons behind the questions. I suggest you make sure you also explain the question about marrying a black man who is not in the NBA.

    Your questions pertain more to black men rather than the white/black issue that you still seem to live around. These are cultural differences that will only get better as soon as everyone lets go of the past. I see a lot of what you said here is based in the past.

    If he would say yes "But iam a man as well "Oh we learn every day now a black woman a Big yes some lookers

    Thanks Colleen I am going to give you a more indepth answer a little later.  Where I live this is an issue.  Where do you live where it is not an issue.  Your city could probably be a good example for other cities, that have race issues.  Have you seen the EEOC statistics lately where many people in several areas around  the country think it is an issue?  I  recently was in a 40 hour mediation training put on by a mother daughter team.  They were caucasion, which does not matter, but it is significant because they shared their findings after working with many large companies with people from various races and religions. They said that the number one problem that they came up with was prejudice and discrimination toward  minority groups & people in the organizations that were not caucasion.  Well, when the heads of the organization heard that information, they hit the roof.  Just like people hit the roof when i said 'black man'.  It is simply a topic,  for intelligent people, like us all, to discuss.  I see it was a button for some. A lot of people are scared to talk about race.  The experts feel and  have said that some people feel if they talk about race, people will think they are racists.  Not true.  I work with kids & the young kids now adays can talk about race and still be friends.  That's kind of how we get rid of it and make things better, like your city.

    Yvonne57

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    tabber, I didn't mean to give you a Thumbs Up I pushed that button by accident. I don't take TU's lightly and am stingy with mine. Your topic doesn't deserve a comment or TU from me so I'll just stop here. yvonne57

    When you fall in love colour has nothing to do wether you were yellow ...green...red....and so on Love is love

    dowsa

    you did it again Mel Twice are you trying to double score I was going to give you a down "but give you tu I like you and scared of your pal Colleen.
    melandrupert

    I told you dowsa it the site its soooooo slow thanks anyway xxxx ps Colleen is a pussy cat

    When you fall in love colour has nothing to do wether you were yellow ...green...red....and so on Love is love

    melandrupert

    @ dondowning for got to mention that one damn! xx

    Not me! I prefer women and like 'em in an assortment of colors!

    ONLY IF HE WAS GOOD LOOKING.


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    ed shank

    A face only a mother can love. I think he's my plumber.
    figtree3

    I had an uncle who was over 300 lbs.when I was 10 years old. By the time I was 20 he had lost all 100 lbs.
    He was still the same loving, happy man.
    I hadn't changed.

    If I was not with my husband. If I was in love it would not matter the color of his skin!!Love is all that matters.

    Well! I'm glad that you've had that enlightening discussion about the question as alot of my confusion on how to best respond to what I considered to be a bit of a strange query to begin with, has been cleared up. So with that all said, my answer is yes, I would.

    Thanks Umbriel love your answer and enlightening information.

    If the woman I love is black and we agreed to marry what's to stop us?


    Now, we may have to try like hell not to blame the purple people for our unwillingness to meet life's challenges together.

    Not really I prefer women.



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