Dana Johnson
He controlled me in ways. We fought physically when he got mad about something I asked about. He never wanted to make love to me or just hold me or kiss me...he always said he was hurting in his elbow or shoulder or bad headaches...He spent more time playing his ps3 games than with me. I would just go to bed and cry. and he would see me and start raising his voice at me asking me what was wrong but I couldnt tell him because he would start yelling and telling me why he did what he did and so it just caused arguments...I could never express my feelings to him because he would turn things around and it would cause arguments....
2 Answers
zorro
Daisy!
This is abuse! Get out! There are men out there that will love you, hold you, spend time with you. Your married to an adult child. He doesn't know how to communicate with out acting out.
You also should seek counseling, you have been abuse, in more ways than one. You may be attracted to abusers. You need to learn to love, and respect yourself. Never get involved with a man that puts you down, rejects you, or hits you. This is not love.
I could and never harmed anyone I love/loved. I expect the same from my spouse.
Call a hot line for abused women! They will show you what is really going on in your life and how to fix it. Please seek help!
| 14 years ago. Rating: 0 | |
