Do you share my feelings about piercings?
I'm frightfully old, and come of conservative stock. Thus, when I was a sprog, older women of my class frowned upon pierced earlobes. They themselves might wear earrings to very formal occasions, but they would be clip-on or screw-on - very painful to wear, and very likely to drop off and be crushed underfoot on the dancefloor.
By the time I was grown up, this prejudice had all but died out, but it may yet colour my feelings.
As regards piercings for women (being straight, I have not the least interest in what men do) to me, not more than two in the earlobes is fine, in fact desirable. If you can't think of a more imaginative present, a nice pair of earrings is always acceptable.
In the eyebrow - OK.
In the nostril - if you must, but please, just one.
Elsewhere in the ear, if you must.
In the tongue, if you feel you must. I suppose you DO realise it's supposed to improve your performance when offering fellatio?
Elsewhere on the face, NO! and super-duper NO! for the septum.
Moving down, definitely NO! for the nipples.
If you must for the navel.
Absolute NO! for any part of the sexual apparatus.
As I say, I suspect it's largely a generational thing. But ladies, if you started a relationship with a man, and after a while he said, could you please have this or that piercing done, so that he could love you more, would you think the better of him? And suppose he went on to ask you to have a highly visible tattoo, or enhanced breats? I have to say, if I heard that a man had asked, let alone required, anything on these lines of his girlfriend, I would think the worse of him. But it's for you ladies to judge, not me.
Posted: 4 years ago