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    'What is the most hurt you've ever been?'

    What hurt you and what did you do about it? How long did it take to heal?

    +3  Views: 885 Answers: 7 Posted: 6 years ago

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    ....physical hurt


    ....50 days in the hospital and 11 months of chemotherapy


    ....emotional hurt


    ....after the deaths of my parents


    ....fortunately, God was/is there/here

    My first kidney stone hurt really bad but 3 months ago I broke a couple ribs which I think was worse. Pain meds are all they do for them and the only time they bother me now is when I lay just right on them.

    Emotionally when I was in great turmoil about my daughters baby being adopted with no support for me from my partner!(He is LONG gone)  Then my partners son suicide!  (Still hurts) and for physical pain a ruptured appendix!  (Still  alive)And my brothers murder which is still unsolved!!

    jhharlan

    Whoa! Perhaps I should have lightened up the question. My proverbial hat off to you. Wow, I'll never whine again....
    clu

    We all have had pain, Julie! You learn to live with it! I know you have! :)

    Bob/PKB

    That's a lot of unhappy stuff.

    years ago a teen ager girl caught meningitis. The hospital wanted to cut her leg off because they did not move her around enough, bad circulation. I talked with her mom to dissuade that leg cutting action. I even took my chiropractor to visit her in hospital. She did get leg cut off. She then got into drugs.  She just died 2 years ago.  One thing so sad, she was very kind and an outstanding beauty. I had talked her mom into putting her in modeling earlier on.  That occurred in San Mateo, California. Also in San Mateo, my brother had given a highly successful party, in the house my father and brothers had built. It was a duplex and I rented the back house. The house was big and great.  We decided to give party # 2.We had every age group and every color of people. There were about 100 people. Some upstairs playing pool, some dancing in garage, some in my kitchen talking, some in mom's living room talking to her. every fun things was going on at both the two houses. Houses were connected by the garage. The teens were in their room and some dancing.  Lots of food and everything.  My dad had recently stopped drinking and decided he wanted it to end. My brother and I tried to talk dad into letting the party go on.  The answer was no. I think I was mad about that for a couple of years. After that when me and my better half give a party, we have it at a hotel or hall. I love giving parties for my friends and people. 

    Flip

    My daughter's best friend lost her son to a drug OD last night. It's been a sad day here today.
    Bob/PKB

    So sorry to read your comment, Flip. Hope she doesn't blame herself or anyone else.

    Emotianal when the boys died,had never lost something i cared about.. (dogs),,and recovering from spinal surgery,

    terryfossil 1

    Dogs CB Dogs..we always called them our boys..>>>>>>>><<<<<<<..

    Oh, just when I think there couldn't be another place to stab me in the back, someone finds a brand new spot. 


    Betrayal is high on the list of hurts. The hurt fades in time, but I don't get over it, I get through it...

    clu

    Sad

    I don't know.  I have many four great things that hurt beyond understanding.  ... No, five.  Suicide, divorce, abuse, sexual abuse, homelessness and the whammy that I don't care to talk about... six.  Oh... I forgot one thing.  I definitely will never speak of that one out loud.  Only my sister and I know about that and she, as you know is very dead. 

    clu

    very sad
    jhharlan

    Extremely sad.


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