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    Anonymous2
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    God created men and women in his image. Each sex has a normal attraction to the other, as God intended. As a happily married man, how can I 'turn off' the natural urge to look at beautiful women, clothed or partially clothed, even if I have never had nor will I ever have any intention of being unfaithful.

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    pythonlover
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    As long as you are looking and not touching,there shoudn't be a problem.

    Chiangmai I never had any sexual relations with that woman, Ms. Lewinsky.

    Colleen
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    Beauty is meant to be enjoyed. If you are lusting after these women, double check and make sure you really are happily married. If you are simply enjoying the view, congratulations, you're human and exactly how God designed you.


     

    Ssumlady Thats right beauty is to be looked at and admired ...but if your lusting and wanting what you see then you must be thinking about trading in what you do have for a new one...think twice because what you see is not always what you get.

    daren1
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    only death will cure that.. desires of the flesh are never satisified until one knows christ..


    Chiangmai
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    Welcome to the male species.


    Vinny
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    I enjoy looking at my neighbor's flower garden but I won't pick them, that's wrong, but I do enjoy looking at them..


    jhharlan
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    I used to ask my mom if she was jealous when ever we (as a family) were around pretty, young girls and she told me that once you're too old to look, you're not much good for anything else....


    jhharlan
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    I used to ask my mom if she was jealous when ever we (as a family) were around pretty, young girls and she told me that once you're too old to look, you're not much good for anything else....


    Headless Man
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    There is nothing wrong in looking but when you find your self thinking things you shouldn't turn your head and ask God to help you, He will. 


    rrguide
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    Hey, your answer is in your question!  God created you to be attracted to the opposite sex because he loves childred and wants you to be fruitful.  He supplied us with The Holy Spirit to dwell in us as a helper to us as well as a comforter to our soul.  Find someone, who you know, who has the Holy Ghost and ask them to help you ask for it.  That's the best way to keep your urges in check.  You can still admire Gods handiwork!  Read Acts 1-8 and other versus around it.


    debora nielsen
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    how old r u and every day go to the salond do your nails your hair and ask if u can do masaj



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